International Family Day is a momentous occasion that occurs every year on May 15. It is a day to recognize the importance of the family unit as a fundamental institution of society and to raise awareness of the social, economic, and demographic processes that impact families. The establishment of the International Day of Families by the United Nations General Assembly in 1993 was a move that deserves a standing ovation. The celebration of this day reminds us of the vital role families play in shaping our values, beliefs, and outlook on life. It is also a time to appreciate the diversity of families worldwide and to promote family-friendly policies and programs.
But what is a Family? The answer is perhaps as diverse as people’s mind. Some people believe that family is rendered as the basic unit of society while others state that in this Modern era – the simple way to put this – is the concept of family is not beholden to blood. It is beholden to one simple but seemingly impossible thing and that “thing” is unconditional love.
Due to different circumstances and reasons, people sometimes choose to keep away from their biological family. However over time may form or add a new family they meet in a new environment – for instance through friends or colleagues or many more sources.
Regardless of what form family might take for you, one thing is certain: our family shapes us. This is true for all the families we are a part of. A happy family promotes love and care for one another which results in balance, happiness, support, lots of quality time spent and true appreciation for one another.
Now, let’s be real. Families can be a bit of a pickle at times. Whether it’s sibling rivalry, in-law drama, or disagreements over who gets to control the TV remote, there are certainly a few kinks to iron out in any family dynamic. But despite the occasional bumps in the road, families remain an integral part of our lives.
Now, let’s get down to the nitty-gritty. The breakdown of the family unit can have profound impacts on the social, psychological, and economic well-being of individuals. Divorce, separation, and single-parent households are just a few of the challenges families face today. These issues can affect the development of children and adults alike, and they require our utmost attention.
But fear not, dear reader. The celebration of International Family Day is not just a time to focus on the challenges. It is also an opportunity to showcase the strengths and resilience of families worldwide. Families come in all shapes and sizes, and they have different cultures, traditions, and beliefs. Whether you’re part of a Brady Bunch-style blended family or a tight-knit nuclear family, there is no one-size-fits-all approach to family life.
So, let’s give a round of applause to all the moms, dads, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins out there. You may drive each other crazy at times, but at the end of the day, you’re all in this together. And to all the policymakers and organizations out there working to support families, keep up the good work. Your efforts are much appreciated.
One cannot emphasize enough the importance of family. They play a great role in our lives and make us better human beings. A content, progressive and grateful family can only help in the development of a stronger society and a united nation. In the words of arguably one of the greatest American Presidents in American history – Abraham Lincoln, “United we stand, divided we fall”. Having a family is such a basic necessity that often we take it for granted when we have it.
In conclusion, the International Day of Families is a day to celebrate the joys and challenges of family life. It reminds us of the importance of families as the building blocks of society and highlights the need for policies and programs that support families in all their diverse forms. So, go ahead and give your loved ones a hug (or a socially distanced elbow bump, if that’s more your style). Happy International Family Day!
This article is written by Dr. David Chandy,
Consultant and Co-ordinator, Department of Endocrinology,
Sir HN Reliance Foundation Hospital and Research Centre