The fear of counselling- Why are we afraid to seek help?
Imagine this scenario you have a cold. Your nose is running, you have a bad headache, and your throat hurts. You have a lot…
Read MoreImagine this scenario you have a cold. Your nose is running, you have a bad headache, and your throat hurts. You have a lot…
Read MoreHave you ever felt that knot in your stomach that just won’t loosen, a feeling of discomfort and unease that lingers but you can’t…
Read MoreEvery relationship is unique, but as it turns out at the core of it people everywhere are essentially looking for the same things in…
Read MoreHow we see ourselves and how we see the world have a great deal to do with one another. In other words, our internal…
Read MoreAt the core of any good relationship lie the seeds of friendship: a space where you can be yourself, quirks are accepted and even…
Read MorePeople are decidedly resistant to change, yet if you think about it a little changing is almost all we really think about. We want…
Read MoreThe concept of living in the now or being in the present has its roots in Eastern philosophies, but has gained popularity in mainstream…
Read MoreThroughout the last couple of decades, our ability to connect with people around the globe has exploded. Initially, the internet allowed us to chat,…
Read MoreThe little things in life aren’t really little. They become the cornerstone of our days and they create the life we live. They gradually…
Read MoreOver the past two decades, much of the research on happiness can be boiled down to one main prescription: give thanks. Across hundreds of…
Read MoreSince time immemorial, human beings have been perplexed by existential questions regarding the philosophy of purpose.As complex beings whose brains are wired to try…
Read MoreThe fear of failure can hold us back from success but research suggests that we can change the way we think and feel about…
Read MoreWhile anger is generally perceived quite negatively in our society, it is in fact one of the six basic emotions recognised among human beings,…
Read More“The mind is its own place, and in itself can make a heaven of hell, a hell of heaven.” – John Milton As human…
Read MoreAs social beings, one of our strongest tools for survival is that of communication. We talk to the world not just through our words…
Read MoreChange is a mysterious thing; people naturally strive towards it, claim to want it and yet are often stubbornly resistant to it. Humans enjoy…
Read MoreThere is no manual that clearly explains how to wake up every day and feel confident that the day will be a good one.…
Read MoreHave you ever thought about sitting quietly at your desk and doing nothing? Doing nothing is hard! While this could be quite contradictory to…
Read MoreMindfulness is the practice of being aware of the present moment, and having an accepting, kind, gentle and open attitude towards your thoughts and…
Read MoreRelationships are funny things. When you decide to be in one, you are prepared to some extent that the person you love will change,…
Read More“What is always speaking silently is the body.” – Norman Brown Considering that we come into this world with our bodies as the primary…
Read More5 Ways to Un-complicate People are complex, dynamic and at times inscrutable in the way they navigate the world. Not only are we complex…
Read MoreThe first thing to think about is why, at Silver Oak, we use the term ‘stress’ to relate to problems such as ‘anxiety’ and…
Read MoreMillions of hearts were broken when ‘Brangelina’ decided to split. While some resorted to bereavement, as if their own marriages and relationships had fallen…
Read MoreThe Nature versus Nurture dichotomy that has sparked among psychologists a debate since the beginning of the field may in fact have its roots…
Read MoreEveryone may not be a connoisseur of art or a lover of music, but when you live in a society bustling with and around…
Read MoreStress manifests physically in the form of a variety of unpleasant sensations ranging from headaches, tension in the muscles, high blood pressure and irritable…
Read MoreThe once prominent line between body and mind has become blurred; it is now widely acknowledged amongst clinicians and laymen worldwide that the body…
Read MoreFrom the time Hans Selye defined “stress” in 1936 as “the non-specific response of the body to any demand for change”, the world has…
Read MoreSocial anxiety or social phobia is the disabling fear of one or more specific social situations, wherein an individual fears that they may be…
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